After all these years photographing kids, I’ve learned what works and what just doesn’t.
First, I never rush. Some kids warm up right away, while others need time to explore the studio and before they’re ready. When families feel rushed, the smiles disappear fast, and honestly, no one enjoys that kind of pressure.
I also never ask kids to “say cheese” or hold stiff poses. Those big personality-filled photos? They usually come from silly faces, unexpected giggles, or a moment when they’re doing their own thing. Trying to force a perfect smile almost always backfires.
Before the camera even comes out, I talk with parents. Every kid is different. Some are shy. Some are wild. Some want to tell me their entire life story. Taking a little time to learn what makes your child loves or may not respond to well helps me photograph them in a way that feels real to you.
If I’m being totally honest, though, sometimes I may even neglect parents when they first arrive (sorry!). My first instinct is to always make your children feel safe in this new unfamiliar environment, so I go straight to interacting with your child, creating connections and preparing them for a day of run.
Avoiding those common mistakes creates a space where kids can just be themselves. And that’s when the good stuff happens.
